If you start thinking about how to make him worry about losing you, you probably have reached “that stage” of a relationship. The stage where things are not falling apart, but instead fade away. The stage where you feel like he is taking you for granted.
Every couple, especially those who have been with each other for a long time, has to go through this. As women, we shall always be the first one to worry. You probably are searching for methods on how to get his attention back all over the place. But slow down, just slow down for a moment and listen to me: Just a wrong move can turn your relationship into an unhealthy one. Through my lifetime being a relationship coach, I’ve seen many women tried to do unwise things, including having sex with another guy to make their boyfriends jealous. No, you don’t have to go that far. The tips I’m going to share with you is going to make him worry about losing you and urge him to do something before it is too late. Instead of creating a negative effect, they will “refresh” your same love and take it to a new level.
Let’s get to it, shall we?
1. Stop being a second option
He got a plan with his friends. But for some reason, one of them can’t go at the last minute and thus he calls you. Sounds familiar? If this happens frequently, I’d say the smart thing you can do is to refuse. Show him that you also have your own plans. You are not available all the time.
Your refusal will show him that you respect yourself and therefore you are not gonna be the second option. And I’m sure if you refuse in a kind, gentle way, he will like you more as his woman. You are independent and not at all clingy. Isn’t it great?
2. It feels good to please your loved one, but do it less
There is nothing wrong with trying to please your loved one. That’s what you should do in a healthy relationship. But if you wanna make him worry about losing you, you should just do it less. The more you do it, the more he will take you for granted. Just put it like this: For now, he just doesn’t deserve your complete devotion. Leave him for once. If you have always been pleasing him, a sudden stop will make him wonder. Once he realizes that you are not to be messed with, he will try to do everything to please you.
3. Be less caring
Do you often complain when he forgets a date? I would tell you, he will start to panic if you act like there is nothing happens. The truth is, women will complain a lot when they still care. When they stop bothering, they also wouldn’t care to spill out a word. Unfortunately, men only realize this when it is too late.
So if he doesn’t call you for the weekend plan? Don’t bother. When he says that you are not spinning around him anymore, he will, in turn, be the one to do it.
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4. Try new sex moves will make him worry about losing you
Nowadays, it is not hard to learn these “bedroom tricks”, right? Show him what you can do. I bet it will take a while for him to get rid of the question, “where the heck did she learn all of these?”
While being subtle, this act triggers an emergency button inside his brain. Doesn’t matter whether he wants or not, he will imagine you being with another guy. He will be forced to acknowledge the fact that you can be gone without him knowing it. If this doesn’t make him take action, I don’t know what will.
5. Set a password to your phone
Of course, you don’t do anything wrong. But putting a lock on your phone will trigger his fear of losing you. He will have to think about what you are trying to hide.
Men and women are certainly two different species. But if he suddenly sets a password to his phone, you are going to wonder whose texts it is that he doesn’t want you to know about, right? He will feel the same thing in this case.
6. Start taking lead
Usually, it is he who decides everything, right? So if you suddenly start taking lead, he will be confused.
Show him that you are confident, and you have your own point of view. There is nothing more mesmerizing than a woman with her own opinion. This will unlock a new side of you that he has never seen, and he will have to go crazy all over you again.
Every relationship has its ups and downs. It doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t love you anymore, all it takes now is a “push” to heat up your love. In that case, these tips will certainly work.
Remember, as women we have our own insecurity. Nevertheless, don’t let this insecurity push you off-limit. Doing this is all it takes to make him worry about losing you. For more advice on how to make your love burning, follow us on our social media right now! You might want to be the first one to learn our exclusive tips and tricks.
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