So you are looking for some tips on how to make him fall in love with you. Let’s not say anything about him yet. We should first talk about you. The fact that you are interested in this topic proves that you have fallen madly in love with HIM.
Am I right? Don’t blame me if this makes you blush.
Before becoming a relationship expert, I was once in your shoes. Having a huge crush on a guy and trying to express our feelings is something all of us have gone through. If there is still some reason you don’t make a move yet, it must be because you are scared he doesn’t feel the same way.
That’s the purpose of this article. I write this because I want to help you out from the struggle that I once stuck in. I want to find a way to MAKE SURE that he shall fall in love with you madly. And no, some tricks that only spark an uncertain ray of attraction is not what you are going to find here. I’ve created a careful strategy for you to win his heart forever. It does take time, but after you’ve followed my plan you will be surprised with the devotion he might give you.
Ready? Get, set, go!
But Before We Learn How To Make Him Fall In Love…
… I want you to learn this first lesson. This is a very, very, very important lesson. Probably the first and foremost thing I told many girls who came to me for advice.
An extremely fundamental lesson. Be patient.
Yeah, I’m not joking. In order to get him to fall in love, you have to learn the art of patience. You probably are going to burst out with feelings. You are on the defenseless side when all you can do is to see whether he will return your love or not. Your mind is now filled with questions: Does he love you or not? How would he react when you finally make a move? What is he thinking? …On and on and on. I feel you, you are not alone. But keep this in mind: Love takes time. Especially when you are expecting a serious, deep-binding relationship. If you go so fast, you might ruin your chance to be with him.
The reason why I have to put this on first notice is that many of my clients made this mistake. It’s a shame, for the fact that their love could have bloomed beautifully. I don’t want you to be one of them. Remember, ALWAYS BE PATIENT AND TAKE IT SLOWLY.
Now, let’s move to the first step.
1. Take care of your appearance
Admit it, appearance is the first key factor to decide whether you will like someone or not. Think about it for a moment. You don’t really need a man who looks like Brad Pitts, but would you like to be with a man who looks like Pig Pen? It is just the same for men. Therefore, “take care of your appearance” is always an important step to make him fall in love. You also don’t need to look like Angelina Jolie but do pay attention to your clothes and your hair. Dress approximately according to the occasion, and keep your hair clean. It is not hard to look neat and elegant.
2. A smart conversation is always a plus!
Smart is the new s… Oh no, it is not the new sexy. A smart woman has ALWAYS been sexy now and then!
Don’t let the media fool you with the concept of a beautiful young lady with absolutely zero brains. He would be much more attracted to you if you are able to show him your opinion, and what you are having in mind. Don’t be shy to bring up a subject and discuss with him about it, but make sure that it is a field you really have knowledge. He would want to spend time with you much, much more this way.
And also, don’t be afraid if you two have different opinions. Pushing back is not the same as arguing. You basically are just telling him that you want your own opinion to be valued. If you to it the right way, you will become a damn hot chick. Trust me!
3. Praise him when he deserves it
Guys don’t get complimented that often. Most of us women have the habit of keeping the compliment in mind. I’m not saying that it’s bad, but if you praise a guy, he will have to remember you and that compliment for a very long time.
If something positive comes across your mind, say it. If you think he looks hot in that shirt, tell him. I’m not telling you to fake the compliment, of course. You like him after all, so if there is something you like, just go ahead and speak up!
4. Make him know that you are thinking of him
That’s another habit of us woman. You might be too shy to let him know your thought. This comes from insecurity, like “what if I pour my heart out to him but nothing’s gonna work?”. Well, when you do, the chance for it to work out is much higher according to research.
I’m not telling you to send texts like “Hey just want to let you know I’m thinking of you the whole day!” since they sound a bit, you know, creepy. But a small little text like “Hey I just baked some cakes today, if I remember correctly this is your favorite!” will surely make him smile.
It takes different time for different people to fall in love. You don’t have to wonder why you can be hopelessly in love with him so fast when he doesn’t even seem to care. It might be slower to make him fall in love. Once you follow these steps, not only can you process things more quickly, but you can also make sure that he will be attracted to you in no time.
Have you ever been in a relationship? If the answer is yes, you might find some of the tips above new to your experience. Maybe you never thought about complimenting a man before, or perhaps you are too shy to let him know you are thinking of him. Now it’s time for you to try it with your Mr. Right and see its unbelievable effect!
Do you have any tips on how to make him fall in love madly? Share it right down in the comment! We’d love to hear your opinion.